Category Archives: Brave Dating Coach

You Can Be One of Those Known as “Hard to Get”

Have you noticed how those who play “hard to get” always have attracters? Have you been jealous of someone like that? Maybe that someone is one of your friends? There are two reasons why those who play “hard to get” have attracters. But first let me define what “hard to get” is not. This is […]

Do You Want to be More Than That Nice Guy?

Women really do want to marry nice guys. We want to be treated nicely and respectfully. Players, bullies, jocks, all those stereotypes do not know how to be that. Sadly, I know too many women who choose badly and are drawn to the “bad boy.” Wounded people love bleeding on each other. Nice guy, this […]

Dating in a Small Church

After working in large churches all of my ministry life, my last church made a decision to multiply into smaller churches. Some call this the micro-church movement. I found these were some of our healthier years as a church. I love being involved in a small church. People know each other, really know each other. […]

Brave Dating Practice: Commit Yourself to a Local Church

If taking notes from this blog, write this one down. This is a brave dating practice. You may think that loving Jesus is enough. It’s not. Somehow this weird “Jesus and me” mentality has infected Christianity. For too many church has become listening to podcasts, watching popular preachers, hiking, skiing, or otherwise spend time in […]

Women’s Hearts Must Be Guarded. Really?

I missed this message, which I understand started in the 90s, that it is a man’s responsibility to guard a woman’s heart.  I missed it because I was busy teaching my youth group and every camp and retreat that would have me something of more substance and more truth. Yet I hear lingerings of this […]

Big Ups to Twentysomethings

I love twentysomethings.  Of course I do because all of them used to be teenagers whom I love also.  I created this blog for twentysomethings because I care deeply (which is why I am so opinionated) about the decisions they make during their 20s. This is why I post this Ted talk.  In the opening […]

When Do You Text Back?

There is an app for that. Seriously there is. Disclaimer: I have not dated in this texting world. Though I am an avid texter. I had to become one because I love teenagers and text is their language. I am amazed at the great truths of God’s love I can communicate through text. How did […]

Second Date Ideas (Oh You Creative Person)

This is after the coffee date or after several coffee dates. When you are ready to take this person you are getting to know on a date, don’t make it a dinner and movie date. How hum drum. How stereotypical. Maybe even boring. Let your creativity shine. Why? Women will remember these dates. Women will […]

Placing Yourself in Good Situations

Another brave dating practice.  Place yourself in good situations.  Get involved in ministry in whatever capacity because… I know a wonderful late-in-life single who just got asked to be on the board of our local homeless and under-served non-profit, a very respected and renowned organization.  I’ve known this woman for 20+ years because she used […]

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